Getting Back With an Ex

My ex is trying to get back with me, what do I do? Do I give it another try?

When clients are perplexed with this question, there are a series of questions needed to be asked to make an intelligent decision in your best interest.

✨ Most importantly, how do you currently feel about the other person? This can be tricky because you may simply be missing the good times and forgetting the bad and the reasons why the break up happened to begin with. Are you simply feeling lonely? On the other hand, if you have mainly negative feelings towards them currently, then that speaks volumes.

✨ Aside from your feelings, it’s very important to take a look at what they are wanting now, what are they coming with? Is it the same relationship it was then? Have changes been made that would improve the relationship? Are your needs and desires in better alignment now? What is different? If there is no difference then you are wasting your time. Why would the results be any different if you go back and there is no change?

✨ Remember actions speak louder than words! One can say the right things and make a lot of promises but they serve no purpose unless there are actions to back them up. You don’t want to just hear the difference but you want to feel the difference!

✨ Lastly, it should feel right and not forced. Your gut will know it. If it is not right, you will feel old patterns repeating themselves, as opposed to it being right and things naturally falling into place in healthy and well functioning ways.

✨ All the best to you in your quest for love, peace and happiness.